Aries Love Horoscope – May 2014
Aries love horoscope for May is filled with self-reflection and focus. We all go through times of naivety or throwing caution to the wind, but now is the time for you, Aries to grow up a bit. You have had your fun, but now is the time to become more serious. This is not necessarily about finding that special someone for forever, but more about understanding that is what you deserve.
In order to be able to have a long, lasting and meaningful relationship, you must love and understand yourself. After all, how can someone love and understand you if you cannot do the same for yourself. Your Aries love horoscope suggests that your focus should be on really trying to figure out why you make the decisions that you do and how you feel about them. If you can learn to process your feelings and needs at the same time, anything you build from there will be whole.
Your family will be a great source of inspiration and support for you as you find out more about yourself, according to your Aries love horoscope. We learn a great deal by simply watching the relationships around us, specifically those in our own family. You can learn about your own strengths and weakness by simply observing them. Most of what we know and learn comes from them. Take the good and the bad and apply them to your own actions.
Your friends will play an important role in this journey with you as well. Your Aries love horoscope warns you to remain strong and steadfast in your path. You will encounter bumps and blocks along the way, often in the form of peer pressure or lack of support, but you must stay strong and keep your end goal in mind. Sometimes our friends are not on the same path, but a true friend will allow you down your own without resistance.
Remember to dig deep to find the things that are most important to you. Do you need stability over excitement or support over passion? These are things that you have never really let yourself think about. You must have all of your priorities in order before you can move forward in any relationship. Whether you are currently in one or not, this journey must be taken if true bonds are to form.
Your Aries love horoscope shows that this is a time for growing up and it is never too late for that. Gaining self-awareness will always be a benefit. The more you know and understand about yourself, the more likely you are to find your happiness. If you know what you want, you are much more capable of finding it and, more importantly, recognising it when you do. Be open, be honest and be focused this month. Put in the work and you will be rewarded tremendously.
Taurus Love Horoscope – May 2014
Your Taurus love horoscope this month is centered around doubt. Unfortunately, this uncertainty can be coming from any number of places. Your main romantic relationship, your friends or your family could all be affected by the seeds of doubt planted within you this May. You will need to focus on the facts rather than the emotions of everything. This will be a difficult task, but it is necessary.
You will need to be able to distinguish between a bad mood and attitude with true substantiated doubt. This will be the most difficult part for you. Your Taurus love horoscope warns that any negative feelings will prompt negative reactions, but you must be able to step back and analyze the situation before you proceed forward.
Keep only proven loved ones close to you as you make your way through this month. You do not want to be easily influenced by anyone who cannot put your needs first. Anyone with a tendency to have their own agenda should be kept at a distance for the time being.
When things get tough, have faith that you are going through these struggles for a reason. That reason is that you are building a better, stronger and truer future for yourself. Feelings will be hurt because the heart in involved. Remember this, if something is worth fighting for, you will fight. If something is not worth your time, you will not waste your time fighting. While fighting can be ugly and stressful, it also means that those involved care enough to do so.
Your Taurus love horoscope wants you to have faith that in the end, you will have something better and stronger that can last. In matters of the heart, we always run the risk of getting hurt. Those that prove to be worth the fight will be stronger with you for having gone through it. Your feelings must always be acknowledged, confronted and accepted by not only yourself, but also those you let into your heart. Your job is to make sure those you let in deserve to be there.
Keep your heart open to change and guarded to deception. Be clear with your reasons and truly listen to responses. Often, it is not so much the answer, but the way the answer is delivered that can tell you what you want to know. Your gut will play a huge role this month. Listen, assess, think and then react. Avoid jumping to conclusions and search for facts rather than proof of your doubts.
Most importantly, your Taurus love horoscope encourages you to be honest within yourself. Self-denial can cause people to make bad decisions that delay progress. Surround yourself with those who will be honest and keep you honest as well. Keep you eyes open and your heart guarded until you come out at the end with clarity.
Gemini Love Horoscope – May 2014
Your Gemini love horoscope this month will be centered around commitment. More specifically, you will need to dig deep within yourself to decide exactly what it means to you. In order to have a fully functional relationship with someone, you need to know exactly what you need and want out of it. What are your expectations? What will you not accept? What do you truly need to be happy?
Most of us do not understand that knowing ourselves, our faults and our strengths is the most important part of finding balance in every aspect of our lives. If we do not know ourselves, we cannot expect anyone else to be able to make us happy. Your Gemini love horoscope reminds you that it takes a great deal of honesty to be able to truly and completely understand and accept ourselves for exactly who we are. This is what you need to work on this month.
It is very difficult to be able to look at our lives in an objective way, but if you are able to do this, you will open yourself up to the prospect of true commitment. The goal should be to find someone who loves and accepts you for exactly who you are. There should never be any regrets or doubts when you decide to spend your life with someone.
If you are currently in a relationship, you must be honest in your assessment of it. Anything can be fixed if there is true effort and commitment on both sides. You must, however, start with yourself, according to your Gemini love horoscope. Ask the difficult questions: Am I really happy? If not, can I change things to make myself happy? Is it worth my time?
We all want to be loved, but settling for the one who is convenient or available may make us happy temporarily, but eventually you or your partner will resent the other.
You need to feel as if you have nothing to hide and nothing to be ashamed of. You want to be with someone who supports and loves you unconditionally. They should be the first person you want to tell good news to as well as the first person you call when something goes wrong. This is a tall order to place on someone so the least you can do is make sure that you can be the same for them.
Your Gemini love horoscope says you have time on your side. As you try to figure yourself out, you have the charm to hold on to the people who love you. You have the gift of multitasking. Keep everyone’s feelings in mind as you figure out what you want, need and deserve. You crave the stability that a committed relationship can give you. You owe it to yourself to be in one that will last a lifetime.
Cancer Love Horoscope – May 2014
Your Cancer love horoscope this May is focused on clarity and sincerity. You are instinctively a very nurturing personality, however, you are finding it hard to clearly express yourself to your loved ones. You need to figure out if this is a result of poor communication or that somehow your feelings have become unclear. Either way, you need to resolve the issues before you find that fixing things is no longer possible.
If communication is the main problem, then you have a better chance of resolving the issues. Often times, we become so accustomed to our own routines that we forget to really look and see those around us. Sometimes simply stopping yourself and spending some time really thinking about everyone that matters to you can do the trick. Your Cancer love horoscope reminds you that we can get so caught up in our lives that we start to take people for granted.
It is not always natural for us to put ourselves in other people’s shoes, but in order to be in a healthy relationship, that is exactly what we must do. It is important to be careful with the feelings of those we love. It is never a good idea to push anyone too far because there is no guarantee that they will come back to you. You must know who matters to you and it is your responsibility to keep them where it matters in your heart.
If you find that your feelings are a bit muddled about someone important in your life, then you will need to face it head on. Time will become an important factor in this situation because the longer the void, the stronger the negative emotions will become. This will cause communication to become even more difficult. You need to assess your feelings and sort them out quickly.
Your Cancer love horoscope warns that the worst thing you can do is put it off. Even if the task seems difficult now, it will be much worse to deal with if you let negative feelings fester. The imagination is a dangerous thing if it is left to wander on its own. Deal with the issues, whatever they may be, and move forward. Everyone involved would be better off if things are settled quickly regardless of the outcome. Closure is a powerful thing.
Your goal should always be to know who you are and to find someone who will compliment the person you are. They should make you better and enhance who you are and not change who you are. It is human nature to want to please the people we care about, but it should never be at the expense of our character.
Tough decision will need to be made, but they will be necessary in the end. You will become a better person and your relationships will be stronger because of it. You will gain knowledge of yourself and confidence in what you want out of life.
Leo Love Horoscope – May 2014
Your Leo love horoscope for May is full of possibilities. There is great potential in your energy throughout the month. You are as close to your personal balance as you have ever been and that is resulting in some very real and significant possibilities. The key for you, Leo, is to be open-minded and open-hearted at all times. You have a tendency to close yourself off when you are uncomfortable or being challenged. You need to push through your insecurities in order to reap the benefits that life has to offer.
You are naturally a very loyal person, however, this trait often blinds you to outside issues. Often times, it is as if you have blinders on. Once you decide someone is worth your love, you decide that is all you need. You are committed and you expect the same from them. In a perfect world, this would be fine, but we do not live in a perfect world. People change and feelings change. These are the types of things you tend to miss, ignore or overlook, according to your Leo love horoscope.
You must open yourself up, mind, body and soul, if you want the chance at a forever miracle. The potential is there. You simply have to be open enough to see it and accept it. It will not be an easy task. You need to contently be assessing your priorities as well as paying close attention to everything going on around you. It is a complicated path that you have to stay focused on, but if you manage to do it, you will be greatly rewarded.
An important factor to consider as you go on this journey is how much you would resent having any regrets. As doubtful as you may be about something or someone new, consider how you would feel if you let the opportunity pass you by. If you decide that you would be fine without having taken the risk, then don’t do it. If, however, you would always wonder, then it is certainly better to take a leap of faith.
The enormity of possibilities before you are both a great gift as well as a burden on you. Your Leo love horoscope wants you to control the level of success of your future with the decisions you will make now. There is so much pressure coupled with tremendous possibility. You are a loving, passionate and loyal soul who deserves an equal type of love directed back to you. Not many people possess the qualities that it takes to achieve this level of contentment.
Honor your gifts and privileges by giving it a fair shot. You owe it to yourself to explore any and all possibilities thrown your way. The simplest of chances can turn into the most significant moments on your life. You simply need to allow them to be significant to you. Your Leo love horoscope encourages you to remain open within yourself as well as with those around you. Take everything you can possibly take it from everyone in your life and watch for your cues.
Virgo Love Horoscope – May 2014
Your Virgo love horoscope for May centers around building your self-worth. You are a natural giver and you love to serve the people you love. You tend to fall immediately into the role of caregiver and take on quite a bit. You are all too often willing to give up parts of yourself in order to make others happy. This is not something that you necessarily do intentionally, but it always seems to happen in similar ways in every relationship that you have.
The most important thing for you to learn, according to your Virgo love horoscope, is that in order for you to have a happy and healthy relationship, you need to be free to be yourself as well. Some people are too selfish in relationships. You are not selfish enough. You are far too willing to give up the things you love to do or even say if it means making your partner happy.
This is not the way to build a solid foundation for a lasting relationship. You need to find a balance of showing interest in your partner’s life while maintaining your own preferences. You should not feel as if it is necessary for you to change significant parts of you in order to be with someone.
You must figure out if you are letting these things happen or if your partner is putting the pressure on your to change. The former would require you to look internally, but the latter would mean that you need to cut ties. It is one thing to make thee changes for yourself because you feel it would help the relationship. It is a completely different story if you are changing yourself because your partner makes you feel like you need to. Let your Virgo love horoscope guide you down the right path.
You have to decide for yourself where the changes need to come from. Sometimes, self-awareness or a lack thereof can cause smaller issues to become larger, more difficult ones.
Find ways to build your confidence and surround yourself with positive people. Witnessing healthy relationships can be a tremendous help in allowing yourself to really see what you deserve. It is always more difficult to see clearly when the issues are our own. Your Virgo love horoscope encourages you to observe other healthy relationships of people you know well. Think about what you know of them and compare it to how you see them within their relationships. Are they the same person?
The main goal is to be with someone who loves and accepts you for who you are and allows you to be the person you want to be. Sharing likes is different from denying them completely. You need to remain who you are and have your partner enhance who that person is, not change it.
Libra Love Horoscope – May 2014
You will be an asset not only to yourself, but also to those lucky enough to call you friend or family. According to your Libra love horoscope this May, you have a combination of skill and luck on your side. You have an uncanny ability to find and restore balance to relationships. Your temperament is conducive to encouraging positivity and progress.
Your Libra love horoscope shows that your personality allows for very strong and long lasting relationships of all kinds. Especially when it comes to romantic relationships, you are able to find the necessary balance needed to make everyone involved feel loved and valued. This is not an easy task, but it seems to come quite naturally to you. Be sure that you always appreciate what you are able to do. You very rarely or may never experience the type of heartache that others do, but try to understand what it would feel like.
Within your own relationships, you foster love, support and loyalty. Pay closer attention to the things that you do or say that make your loved ones happy. Make an effort to understand exactly what it is about you that helps to create such strong bonds. It will not only help you to maintain them, but it would also assist you in sharing the knowledge.
Your Libra love horoscope wants you to take some time this month to help out those you love that need encouragement or assistance. You may not understand it, but your help and support can make a big difference to someone else. Give advice as honestly as you can, but remember that many people are visual learners. Allow those who seek you help to simply observe you. Watching how you act, make decisions and interact with your own loved ones can often times be the best teacher.
Remember to always remain modest and grateful. While you may not always understand what other people go through, you must have sympathy. Things don’t and won’t always go your way, however, even in tough times, you manage to find your balance quicker than most.
If you are currently in a romantic relationship, take some time to yourselves and get away. One-on-one time is your best defense against communication issues. As you try to help others, be sure not to get too caught up in it. It is easy to get overly involved in their problems and bring them home to your own. Remember to keep things in perspective. They come to you for help because you have a good thing: do not mess with it.
Your Libra love horoscope states that if you are currently single, give some serious thought to moving things forward with that someone who has been on your mind. You have put quite a bit of thought into it by now and a decision should be fairly easy to make now. Do not allow the problems that you are assisting with cloud or affect your decision making about your own life. Go with your gut because it rarely steers you in the wrong direction.
Scorpio Love Horoscope – May 2014
Your Scorpio love horoscope for this May is centered around honesty. You are naturally a solitary personality type. You are more particular than most and you certainly know what you want. Often times, this comes across as stubborn. Being viewed in this way can alter your perception of yourself and how you believe people see you. This has caused you to change things outwardly about yourself in order to “fit in” better.
While you have changed some things about yourself to blend better, you do not agree with the changes and have since become resentful that you felt it necessary to change in the first place, according to you Scorpio love horoscope. This cycle is not healthy for you. You start to believe that everything you think, whether it is right or not, is the truth simply because you want it to be. You start to lose your sense of reality. If you let this continue too long, you will start to lose track of your lies as well as your truths.
We all put on a facade of some sort at times during relationships, but it is important to be able to keep things in perspective and surrounded by truth, even if it is only to ourselves. No matter how much we may want things to work out or even how hard we work at it, relationships will not last without truth. At some point, the truth will be set free.
Your Scorpio love horoscope says that you must find a way to be comfortable with dealing with the truth. You either need to develop a tougher skin or learn to be tactful. You will soon discover that it always feels as if something is missing when a relationship is built on lies. You can pretend and fake it all you want, but there will always be something missing.
Thinking things through before you do them can be a tremendous asset to you, Scorpio. Your initial reaction sometimes is to tell people what they want to hear even if it is not true. If you can think through scenarios that would result from any given decision you might make, you will start to make decisions that are less destructive.
You are not used to thinking about anything else but your own needs and wants. Compassion and sympathy do not come easily to you. If you can manage to learn how to have even the slightest bit of either, you will be a much happier person. Learning how to put yourself in someone else’s shoes is a necessity for meaningful lasting relationships. You need to listen to your Scorpio love horoscope and let it guide you.
Take small steps toward improving your self-awareness. Focus on simply being honest to yourself. Learn how to admit to yourself that you told a lie or that you may not be right all the time. Once you can admit these things to yourself, you can start to learn how to apply it to your personal relationships. The key to your happiness is through compromise, truth and compassion.
Sagittarius Love Horoscope – May 2014
There is some powerful positive energy flowing your way, according to your Sagittarius love horoscope. According to your love horoscope this May, you have the potential for creating solid, long-term bonds. With your recent epiphany of your self-worth and confidence, you are attracting all the right kinds of attention. You exude a positivity that draws people in, which is half the battle.
The other half of that battle has been thoroughly conquered by you recently. It is one thing to attract the right type of person, but it is something totally different to be able to recognize your own worth enough to pursue it. You have discovered the beauty that you have to offer others and therefore are ready for some quality relationships.
You must be cautious, however, about becoming too overzealous in your pursuits. Your Sagittarius love horoscope says that you must remain objective, open-minded and critical. Just because you are finally attracting the right type of person does not mean that they are the best fit for you. You must continue to be diligent in your choices and not glamoured by the attention you are now receiving.
You will discover that it will take constant work on your part to maintain the confidence and self-worth you have discovered. It is not natural for you to think so highly of yourself, but hopefully you will surround yourself with people who will help to continue to remind you. Once you find your happiness, you need to consistently work to keep it.
One of the main reasons why you are likely to have success is that you are least likely to take any of your good fortune for granted. This is a gift that comes naturally. Your positivity will rub off on anyone lucky enough to be graced with your love and care. Unknowingly, you perpetuate the positive cycle among those closest to you.
As you venture through this journey of self-discovery and connectivity, try to be ever-present at all times. Your Sagittarius love horoscope wants you to take in every word and every nuance that a potential partner exhibits. There is something to be learned from every action, big or small. You can gain perspective in many places so be sure to be looking.
Be sure to think through every major decision you make regarding your relationships. You do not want to have any regrets. You don’t think well on the spot so give yourself time to make the best decision for you. Give yourself some space as well so that you are not influenced by what others want for you. You need to make a concerted effort to maintain your independent thinking. You sometimes are prone to be swayed by the influence of others who are more domineering than you.
Your life is forever changed for the better, according to your Sagittarius love horoscope. Keep the positivity and confidence prominent in your life and in the life of those you choose to let in. There are endless ways for you to have love in your life. Continue to love yourself and the love will flow freely.
Capricorn Love Horoscope – May 2014
Your Capricorn love horoscope urges you to take some time to yourself. You have been feeling confused and frustrated with your romantic bonds and you cannot figure out the problem. The more frustrated you get, the more your relationships suffer. It is best to step away for a bit to sort things out. Whether you take an official break from each other or simply take a day away, it is crucial for you to get away in order to think clearly.
You do not function well when you are not thinking clearly and it has become evident that you cannot do that in the presence of those who are causing your turmoil says your Capricorn love horoscope. You do not process your own emotions well under duress let alone the feelings of others. It is best to remove yourself from the tension so that you can work out what you need to in your head.
While you are pondering the issues, be honest with yourself about who may be to blame. You are not the easiest person to get along with and you have difficulties with clear communication. It may not be your intention to disappoint or hurt anyone, but you must be able to acknowledge that that may have been the outcome regardless.
Sort out what you need, what you are getting and what you want out of your relationship. Your Sagittarius love horoscope warns that compatibility and passion can only take you so far. You need to build a relationship that has substance. A basis of trust and communication is key to any type of relationship, especially a romantic one.
Keep the feelings of all involved in the forefront of your mind as you endeavor to solve the issues. Every decision you make will affect them and the hows and whys will be significant. You must be able to explain yourself clearly and tactfully.
Seek the advice of someone who has a similar mindset as you. You will benefit most from someone who can relate to how you think and approach general situations. Sometimes your mindset is too calculating and complicated that most people cannot make sense of it. You are a researcher and planner. You like facts and figures, but love is not so cut and dry. You struggle with the ambiguousness of it all and that tends to frustrate you. Have faith in your Sagittarius love horoscope to guide you.
Break it down into terms you can understand. Are you compatible? How can you make each other happy? Can you live without them? Being with someone overly emotional and flowery with their feelings may not be the best fit for you, Capricorn. People can only adjust so much.
Once you’ve taken some time to yourself and decided what you want to do, be tactful and caring in your delivery. This is a relationship not a board meeting. When it comes down to it, remind yourself that this person before you cares about you and handle it accordingly. When you are with the right person, all of the effort will be more than worth it.
Aquarius Love Horoscope – May 2014
Your Aquarius love horoscope for May addresses your tendency to have unrealistic expectations when it comes to your romantic relationships. You are a natural dreamer Aquarius and while that trait is often helpful creatively in some areas of your life, it tends to be a roadblock in your love life. You have grandiose ideas of what love should feel like, look like and begin like. When your expectations are so far from reality, you are only setting yourself up for disappointment.
You believe in magic and fairy tales, perhaps not literally, but certainly in the idea of them. You want to be swept off your feet and have your happily ever after. While there is nothing wrong with wishing for that, you need to understand that it is not likely that things will happen that way. Your Aquarius love horoscope reminds you that hope is wonderful to have as long as it is grounded in reality.
Your more whimsical ideas about love and relationships can prove useful in initially attracting a mate, but as you have most likely experienced, it starts to become a source of contention as the relationship progresses.
Your Aquarius love horoscopes says you need to have a solid hold on the reality of the work and effort it takes to make a relationship work. Having high or even unusual expectations is not necessarily a bad thing, but you need to be sensible about what will actually happen. Pragmatism does not come easily to you, but if you can learn to be honest with your loved ones, then you can get a better sense of their expectations, which would then help to control yours.
When something does not work out the way you envision it, take a moment to try to understand why it didn’t instead of immediately going into a tailspin about things not going your way. There are almost always perfectly logical explanations for why things happen the way they do.
You tendency toward dramatics can sometimes lead people to believe you are unreliable and unstable. Be sure that you are cognizant of how your actions will influence another’s opinion of you. You are rarely ever actually overemotional, but the theatric that you sometimes present can lead to incorrect conclusions about you.
You must find a balance between your hopes for love and the reality of lasting love. The most important thing to remember is that anything worth having takes work and it is from that hard work that miracles can happen. Learn how to make your own miracles rather than simply wishing for them to happen to you. Trust in your Aquarius love horoscope to lead you in the right direction.
The goal is to minimize any disappointment that might be brought on by your unrealistic expectations. Part of this is understanding your partner and how they react to things as well as what their expectations are. If you can focus on how they would react to things, then you will have a more grounded scenario to work from. You need someone who can appreciate your whimsy for what it is while keeping your feet planted firmly on the ground.
Pisces Love Horoscope – May 2014
Your Pisces love horoscope warns you to keep hold of yourself when immersed in a romantic relationship. You are a nurturing soul and because of that, you tend to lose yourself within the relationships you are in. especially if you deeply love someone, you throw yourself unselfishly into their lives. You take on their likes and dislikes in an attempt to make them more comfortable. In turn, it also makes them love you more.
This works well for a time, but when you are searching for a complete balance and happiness, it will not do. You could be content for the rest of your life in this manner, but a real, solid and quality relationship has a balance of both sides. It is your job to make sure that you do not lose yourself completely in someone else. Your Pisces love horoscope wants you to have confidence in yourself and your worth to know that you deserve someone who will share in your pleasures as well as your displeasures.
This is rarely a result of an insensitivity on your partner’s part. This solely rests on your shoulders. You are often so eager to please that you do not even realize that you have lost yourself. Focus on wanting to share with your loved one all of the things that make you happy. You should feel comforted and excited to share these things with them, according to your Pisces love horoscope.
For every interest or fear you learn about your partner, share one of your own. This will ensure that you both are learning about each other equally. Do not be ashamed or embarrassed about your fears or joys. The whole purpose of having someone to share your life with is to actually be able to share everything. You are a people pleaser, but you need to remember to please yourself as well.
If you cannot figure this out, you run the risk of becoming bitter or resentful over time. You never want to have regrets in life, especially when they come at the back end of a long and committed relationship. Ensure that you are truly happy now in order to secure your happiness for the future.
A benefit to focusing on this issue is that you will subsequently be building a very solid foundation for a lasting relationship. Your Pisces love horoscope believes that you have the ability, on your own, to make a marriage work, but if you can manage to truly share your joys and burdens with your partner, you will be unstoppable.
Don’t take on too much, both emotionally and physically. Your natural inclination is to fix things for everyone you care for. If that continues, people will start to take your help for granted, which will lead you to become resentful. Cut off the cycle now and start to share your burdens as well as your joys. You will be surprised how open and welcoming your loved ones will be once you do.